Prom Tips

You've got the boutonniere, the prom dress, and your hair's made up, too. Your date's downstairs with the rented limo, and you're nearly finished with your hair. Everything's just glowing, and in a few minutes you'll be making your way to the biggest night of your teen-aged life.

This being the case, you're sure to want to try and keep everything fantastic. If you're smart, you'd have anticipated possible road blocks towards this end. But most of the time, first-time prom-goers don't really anticipate these things, despite repeated warnings and premonitions by their elders. So they do end up doing stupid things. It's a given.

With that in mind, here's a short guide to what to expect during your one night of fantasy.

Fly me to the Moon

There's always a hint of magic about attending prom - it wouldn't be such a big event, otherwise. The euphoria all the way from the preparation is just the beginning of this magic. So, enjoy each moment contributing to this magical ambiance.

Let your date know what you'll be wearing in advance, so that he can match your dress with his own palette. And no matter what happens, don't ever consider buying the boutonniere and corsage at the same time. That would ruin somewhat the anticipation of having to present the flowers to each other.

For that matter, anticipate other ceremonial memories from prom. Don't skip out on the dance because your heels are making your feet ache. Only wear stylish shoes that are also comfortable. Your feet will thank you for that!

Get Real

Proms receive a lot of notoriety for being called the "night of magic." Of course, the proms are made from "magic" about as much as hotdogs are made from "dogs." In coming to terms with all the expectations and preparations, you begin to realize that it is in the ambiance or the social aura for the occasion. You also realize it is just another fancy gala, where the main event happens not during the progress of the ball, but in what happens between the people--the couples. Getting dressed is just an excuse to bask in the magical moment; break out of the monotony of your everyday life and everyday affairs; and, to appreciate each other for what you both contribute to that all important relationship!

Of course there's still magic in the air. But it doesn't have anything to do with the prom itself - you and your dates make the magic happen. So remember: the prom doesn't make itself memorable. That's something you and your date, together, will have to work on by yourselves.